Why LB?

DATING IS CONFUSING AND SCARY THESE DAYS

You’re working toward personal growth and ready to be in a relationship, but the dating and relationship world is messy.

You want the joy of steady, committed companionship, but the road there seems riddled with landmines. What if the destination–the relationship itself–isn’t safe either? After all, we’ve experienced or witnessed unhappy or abusive marriages and divorce all over the place. Think of the atrocious statistics! You’ve experienced or heard horror stories about crazy online dating tales from the crypt, too.

It’s no wonder daters are scared or confused. Some haven’t even left the starting gate. Our hearts have been broken and we’ve been lied to. Some of us, over and over.

But there is hope for you to find Love.

Love Breakthrough is here as a resource to guide you through your process. Then you can find your way with greater confidence and security. And you too can become a beacon of encouragement and example for other intimidated and weary daters.

 

BEYOND TRENDY DATING FORMULAS

What do you think of when you hear the words “Dating Coach” — do you think about the movie Hitch? The Millionaire Matchmaker? We love them, but Love Breakthrough is not quite the same.

Or maybe you’ve heard of popular books that offer formulas and strict programs that almost guarantee success if you follow them to the letter. Like an incantation or enchantment, many offer superficial formulas based on magical thinking, appealing to our sense of instant gratification and laziness.

 

THE LOVE BREAKTHROUGH FOCUS

It’s about the “Long Run”

We’re a little different. It’s simple (not easy): You’re going to really need relationship skills when you get in that coveted relationship. Why not develop them in the dating arena? It’s perfectly designed for that. The way fitness training prepares you for a marathon.

Reality, Not Reality Show

We give you tips on dating etiquette and how to attract the right matches, but we go deeper, because ultimately, you’re looking for a real relationship, not to be cast on a reality show about dating.

Be Powerful, Let Go

We point out where you are responsible for your own choices to take actions and where you can’t make it happen. It’s easy to get what you can and can’t control backwards.

True & False in You and Them

We identify your pains and fears, and help you face them and conquer them. You can heal and grow. You can get savvy and discerning. You can become the kinder or tougher person you need to be in a healthy relationship.

Technical & Mechanical Fixes in Relating

We help you identify where you’re technically “off” in your practices with matches and how to make adjustments that can dramatically change a connection. This includes but is not limited to how and when to say things, how you interpret words and actions of your matches.

The Rewards of Community & Commitment

You’ll notice that our programs that involve groups or require a longer term commitment such as month-long coaching are discounted. We value community and commitment, and therefore encourage these through special pricing.

Letting You Be You

As you encounter problems along the way, we offer you viable solutions tailored to your personal style and priorities. Check out our programs to see which might fit for you or your single friends and loved ones.

Appropriate Referrals

If we get to know each other and find out that LB is not a good fit for you, we can offer referrals to some really excellent services that may better meet your needs. We’re about getting you the best help for you.

 

ONLINE DATING

Statistics

A few years ago, we conducted a survey of over 100 people who’d been in relationships for six years or more. Online dating was in the top three places of where people met their counterparts. That means, if you’re not going to meet your special someone at college or at work, you’re most likely to meet them online! The statistics of sites like eHarmony are phenomenal, as well. Just do an Internet search for current statistics of eHarmony and other online dating sites because they change frequently.

Using Online Dating Effectively

Even the most sincere daters “misuse” online dating. Not because they have bad intentions, but because they are stumped as to how it actually works. They end up inadvertently sabotaging themselves and concluding that online dating itself is to blame and “it’s not for them”.

Well, let’s face it. Online dating isn’t many people’s favorite thing. But it can get the job done if you make adjustments. You need to know the facts, create the right kind of profile, and navigate communications with the right matches. You’ll put your best foot forward and spend energy on better matches.

LB knows how to help you make that happen. Check out our Online Dating Help Programs. And go to our homepage and request a free download of our tele-seminar “5 Secrets of the Online Dating Industry”.

“Online Dating Is Contrived…”

Many people who long for a relationship believe “if it’s meant to be, it will happen”. We get it, and while we believe in serendipitous relationships, there’s still “our part”. As we said above, we help you sort out what you can and can’t control. Getting your foot in the dating world is a relational action that will help you when the serendipitous relationship arrives, even if it’s not through online dating.

Online Dating Wizardry

LB Dating Coach Christy Sanborn worked for eHarmony in a specially created position as a dating and relationship specialist and won multiple awards for customer care. She was on the Profile Advisor team and rewrote numerous online dating profiles. She zeroed in on concepts of what works and what doesn’t and saw remarkable results when people either changed their profiles or just came to terms with the nature of online dating and how it works. She wrote multiple articles for eHarmony Advice (under a top secret alias). She is an online dating wiz and can help you fix what’s broken with your online search.